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Frequently Asked Questions

Late Blooming Violets Overview

Late Blooming Violets is an online community for women who are questioning their sexuality or coming out later in life.

If you identify as the above and are looking for support and community, you should join.

You can join Late Blooming Violets simply by registering. Once registered you will have access to the online community, forums and groups.

There is no cost to register.

This is an adult online community, so only adults should join. “Late in life” is defined differently by many people.  You may be 25 or 65 and consider yourself late to realizing your sexuality.

Yes. This is a worldwide online forum.

Late Blooming Violets does have a member search feature, but only for profiles that are public. Private profiles do not show up in searches. Our members privacy is of utmost importance to us.

Yes. Profile can be deleted. You may delete your account by visiting the Delete Account page.

This community was created to be a safe space. Following are rules to be followed.  Breaking of rules will result in cancellation of account.

Rules-Short and Simple! 

  1. Be Kind! This group is for support, not judgement. If you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say it at all.
  2. Privacy: Only members who register can see your profile and posts. Privacy is always a concern especially during your coming out journey. While we developed this site as a way to connect with others like yourself and have the support through private online groups/forums, it’s important you take all precautions to protect your privacy, as with any other website! Be smart! Members should respect all members’ privacy. Everyone is at a different point in their journey, so it’s important you take the privacy of your fellow members seriously. 
  3. This is a support site, not a dating site. Please be mindful of catfishing. 
  4. No nudes. 
  5. No fundraising or advertising.  


Getting Started

Edit your profile on your profile page.  There is an edit button on that page.

How to edit profile

You can invite someone simply by sharing the url.  Please only invite those who are women questioning their sexulatity or coming out later in life.